Note to Side Chick
He is not leaving his wife for you, you are there to satisfy what he believes his wife or significant other cannot or will not. You aren’t a part of his real life, you are a side-chick that’s how you accepted this to be things get complicated when you try to switch gears midstream he is not your man, your boyfriend or your boo he doesn’t belong to you-he is already in a relationship and somewhere in his conscious he can’t bring himself to hurt her but you he’s not 100% vested so your feelings are expendable. Now you’re mad you want to make demands. You do not have a right to make. Do not call the house, or blow up his phone you chose to devalue yourself by accepting this role now play your position. You shouldn’t speak poorly of his wife, fiancé, or girlfriend. He married her, plans on marrying her or is considering wifeing her. He is just sexing you-he thinks less of you than he thinks of them and he is cheating on them. Think about it. Being monogamous isn’t not his greatest characteristic he is also probably having sex with his significant other. Yet you want to lol mark your territory with love bites or hickeys-you are just making it difficult for him to come back to you after he goes home and these are discovered. Also you should know more times than not he won’t leave his present relationship however even if he does leave, remember he is not relationship worthy.
